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Growing up in El Paso, Texas, Andy Stoker learned to appreciate people from a variety of backgrounds, cultures and passions. With his grandparents living just two blocks away and a supportive blended family, he felt the love of God through lots of humor, love, humor, differences, humor, grace and humor. As a lifelong United Methodist, Andy found himself called more deeply to ministry with people. He heard God calling him to be a phenomenal weatherman, but that required higher math . . . Then, he heard God calling him to stand-up comedy, but that required a lot of years of Ramen noodles . . . Then, he heard God calling him to share the love of Christ to people who were weathering storms and needed a reminder that God loved them even when the laughing stops.

As Andy was discerning his call to ministry at Texas Tech University, he met a young woman who was in nursing school and working at a church as a youth and university intern. Her name was Megan Callahan; her knowledge of people and faith quickly impressed him. Megan and Andy became partners in ministry and soon found themselves considering partnership for life. After having earned bachelor’s degrees, on January 10, 1998, Andy and Megan were married. Megan began work at Children’s Medical Center and Andy started seminary at Perkins School of Theology. Before completing seminary in 2001, Andy served a two point charge in Henderson, Texas, and Greenland Hills United Methodist Church.

In 2002, Andy was commissioned an elder in the North Texas Conference and appointed to First United Methodist Church of Denton. He served as associate pastor with youth, university students and young adults. He was ordained elder in Wichita Falls, Texas, in 2005. As he continued his work at FUMC-Denton, he found himself in a variety of other ministry areas in the church including adult education and mission ministries. While at FUMC-Denton, he completed a Doctor of Philosophy in Family Studies from Texas Woman’s University. His dissertation research focused on adolescent identity formation in “tweens” and “emerging adults.” More importantly, FUMC-Denton saw Megan and Andy grow their family with two boys: Alex, now six, and Wesley, now eighteen months.

As of January 1, 2009, Andy Stoker is now serving the North Texas Annual Conference as Associate Director of Connectional Ministries for Children, Youth, Family and Camping. He continues to reside in Denton with his family.

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Andy’s book montage

Bonk: The Curious Coupling of Science and Sex
The Good Marriage: How and Why Love Lasts
I Don't: A Contrarian History of Marriage
Parenting Teens With Love And Logic
This Republic of Suffering: Death and the American Civil War
Eragon
The Tipping Point
Fast Food Nation
Nickel and Dimed: On (Not) Getting By in America
Freakonomics: A Rogue Economist Explores the Hidden Side of Everything
A Time to Kill
The Poisonwood Bible
Frankenstein
The Odyssey
Me Talk Pretty One Day
To Kill a Mockingbird
The Catcher in the Rye
The Great Gatsby
Where the Sidewalk Ends
Animal Farm



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2010

January

9-15     Youth Ministry Certification, Perkins School of Youth Ministry, www.psym.org

15-18   Confirmation Civil Rights Bus Tour

24th      Kaufman County Youth Worker Training, Keynote Lecture and Worship Leadership

29-31   Mid-Winter Retreat I

February

3rd       University Park UMC, Lecture, Boys in Guyland: Raising Boys in a Culture of Violence

5-7      Mid-Winter Retreat II

7th       Confirmation Celebration with the Bishop

12-13  FUMC Grand Prairie, Couples Retreat in Four Sessions: Liberating Marriage: New Ways to Discover Abudance in Your Partnership

14th     Custer Road UMC, SPICE (Single People In a Christian Environment), Lecture: Restoring the Power of Intimacy: How American Christians Can Find a New Radical Living Discipleship

19-21  Mid-Winter Retreat III

21st     FUMC, Coppell, Preaching

28th    Suncreek UMC, Allen; Youth Parents, Adolescent Identity Formation

March

3rd       University Park UMC, Lecture, “Girls in Girlworld: Raising Girls in a Culture of Indulgence”

5-7      Youth Annual Conference 2010

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